LOVE AND IT'S COMPLICATIONS

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Why do we need what we don't have?
Why does love and everything that comes with it has to be so complicated ?
You break up with someone and for some stupid reasons you want 'em back. Then you get 'em back and you find out that you didn't really want 'em. You just wanted to feel the victory of having to actually win over a person again.

It's really interesting to know that the heart plays games with us sometimes. Well that's what we like to think. The truth is that we play those games on ourselves and blame it on the heart.

We are told not to show when we love someone so we wouldn't appear "cheap".
We love people that don't love us in return and the people who love us.......(forget it, we hate 'em).

So my question is why does love have to be so complicated? Even when you are so in love with a person, sometimes you are constantly afraid that we may loose them. You end up not enjoying the relationship cause you are busy planing and avoiding a heart break..

So my remedy and solution is to enjoy every single freaking moment.
Do you have to play games if you love someone, No.
Do you have to always be afraid of loosing who you are in love with, No. Enjoy every moment of your life.  If they go, perhaps they were never meant to be with you.

You guys remember that song that says "if you love somebody walk up to her and tell her you love i'm oo".........its time to actually live it.
Don't say I said oo, but you just got to be happy ok.

So this is me signing off with a note that says "Live your best life while you are actually alive"


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