THE KENDER BRAND

I am so excited that the year is coming to an end and even though I may not have achieved so much, am grateful for the ones I have achieved and so happy about life itself. Next year is another opportunity to continue the grind and strive for better accomplishments. That's what we all pray for right? I earlier published an article on detoxing for a new year and am hoping that helped a lot of people, cause being free and lighter is the best way to step into the new year. So on this publish, I decided to share some success tips I drafted while working on my Kender's self discovery questions. (Permit me to digress a bit).  The issues of self discovery, finding our purpose and niche in life has been one of my topmost concerns. Seeing and talking to different persons who do not have a clue on how they could fit into the system bothers me a lot. The wonderful thing is that most of them are super talented and with just a little guide they would discover who they are and fi...

                                                  PART FOUR. Dusted and retrieved cause my life has taken a new turn. I have a new job, its not exactly what I wanted but at least its a good way to start off.  My first day at work was exceptional and I'll tell you why. I was told by my interviewers that punctuality was one of the core values of the company. So I made sure to arrive work some 30 minutes earlier. Unfortunately for me, punctuality was one of my weak points, but I struggled to wake up early enough. My bathing usually takes time as I would dance in front of the mirror and access my body generally. Checking for any part of my body I may have added some extra unwanted weight. Not that I would exercise to shed the extr...

, When detox comes in mind,  the  next word that follows is toxin. Its the last month of the year and we all eagerly await the next year. I sincerely think its the best time for goal setting and planing for the new year. We don't have to wait for the 1st of January to start planning and setting goals. That being said, some may have laid out the plans for next year, some may have written down goals for next year, some have it all in their mind and are patiently waiting for my dear friend 2016 to execute all the plans. Many have mapped out a detailed new year resolution all in a bid to make the next year a better and more fulfilled one. All these measures are good, but there still remains one more thing to be done before we embrace the new year. This one thing may encompass many things but I thought it necessary to share with my readers my thought, cause we all want the best for each other. Its all good for us to look forward to a new year with so much expectations ...

I was relaxing on the couch and didn't feel like going out. I had already changed into my night dress even though its was just 3:15pm in the evening. I was patiently waiting for my favorite TV show to air while scrolling through the music channels over a bowl of freshly made pop corn. I heard a knock on the door and it was my mum. We briefly talked about her day as we struggled over my pop corn. Then my phone rang. ''Hello........I was still trying to figure out who was on the other end of the line when his voice blared into my ear. ''It's me Patrick, how are you'' ''I'm golden ''(I had learnt that from my friend and I probably use it more often than she does) ''I just got into town and I wanted to hang out with you, are you free''? ''Am home already and I don't think I would want to go out again'', I said squeezing my face as though he could see my disapproval. ''I'll b...

Legs crossed and arms folded, thinking of the unsettled realities of life. Not being able to understand the harsh but yet common ironies in life. We all hope for the best and some work so hard to achieve that, but never get to that point. Some just wish for it and put in little or no effort and yet the sky becomes their starting point. Wealth and happiness is what we all hope for but it eludes those who merit it the most, and yet is given in abundance to those who are not worthy of it. Not that I have labelled some unworthy to partake of it (wealth and happiness), but some from what they have done or the position they find themselves in, are just unworthy of it. I have asked my self countless times why kind people die so untimely. I concluded that they were too good for this earth. Acquiring all the different designs from different countries are what most of us really term a perfect life and that has made many to slide into vanity. Healthy discussions or relationships void o...

                                       EPISODE        4 ....................................He couldn't sleep. She was one woman he had loved sincerely and was willing to go any length just to prove it. He wanted more from her, everything, heart and soul, commitment, marriage and children. She could sense that in him, but she was not ready to give. She had nothing left for him. All she could do was take, or maybe extend herself for a little while. All her love had been given too long ago and all her energies were reserved for her work and the bitterness that would trigger her vengeance. ''You should go see a therapist''. He sat up staring into her eyes as though he wanted to rip every information off her and she had no intention of obliging him.  '...

Who are you ? When you look in the mirror, what do you see ?  Does the image you see really tell who you are ?  Do you really know who you are ? When you critically analyze all these questions, you may notice that  many influences have been imposed on you either by environment, your friends or family which may not really be who you are. During our early years, most of us had no control over our choices, habits or ways generally and this formed us to who we are even to the adult stage of our lives. We find ourselves handicapped at doing certain things because from childhood, we've been programmed to accept those things as things we can't do. Some of these influences shaped our personality long before we had a chance of doing anything about our own behavior. Genetics plays a big part in forming our behavior.  The whole blueprint found in the chromosomes transmits hereditary characteristics for each person's development (I don't know much of this, ...