TO SPEAK UP OR NOT..........
.......Few days after Christmas I went for a friend's wedding and since she was an old school friend, I met with other friends who I had not seen in a long while. Catching up was very interesting and our conversation took a new turn considering we were at a wedding. We talked about marriage, relationships and most of all love. One of the four ladies was married, the other was in what I termed ''leading relationship''.......(a relationship that would lead to marriage by all means). The third lady didn't say much about herself so I couldn't place her. I was single and that made the conversation balanced. Our attention drifted away completely from the couple and the wedding generally. We were all engrossed in our little conversation which made us turn tables facing each other. ......''I don't think the woman should say if she is not satisfied, cause it would seem a bit disrespectful to the man'' the married one said. '