THE KENDER BRAND

I walked into the hall with shaky legs. I hated attention and I was getting a double dose of it. My sequins dress drew more attention to me than the well sculpted face sitting pretty on my neck.  I smiled nervously at every face that turned towards me while glancing quickly through the empty seats to pick a perfect spot. Then I heard his voice and my heart raced a thousand times over which I still wonder why.  6.5ft tall from my rough estimations, dark, well groomed and obviously that smile I always longed for. His shirt fitted perfectly making every cut and shape of his biceps evident. I feared he could hear the whispers of my heart from where he sat. It seemed our hearts where so close and I could hear him. He laughed heartily to random jokes told at a wedding table either about the couple or wedding guests. I couldn't stop my mind from the many imaginations it erotically engaged in. Who would have thought that ''Love at first sight'' found its way right

I recently watched a video, which by the way inspired this post. I watched over and over again with rapt attention and for every time I listened to that woman, it dawned on me that our problem as women lies just within us.  My Mama once told me that no man can watch my back the way a woman would. My Mama always believed that we women should stand for each other. I was still very young then so it didn't really sink.  I've grown up watching woman tear each other down. Sometimes not necessarily because of men or anything serious but because of some lame unhealthy competition laced with envy. For the many times I dared to leave my comfort zone and become better at making the world a better place,  I received the most commendation from the men.  A lady would rather criticize than encourage just to make sure you ain't better than her.  Why all these fights, silent bickering and jealousy draped in kindness?   The lady seated next to you isn't your competition and

                                                               EPISODE 4 A soft thump in the kitchen caught Purple's attention as she dropped her bags down beneath the dinning table and pulled her shoes. She looked so exhausted and still in shock hence Cara was the least of her problems. The little brown fluffy thing was already used to Purple and her moods sometimes. She knew it was a good day when Purple came straight to pick her and give her some massage and a bad day when she was totally neglected.  After what seemed like a quick shower, Purple stepped out of the bathroom thinking if she really washed well or not. It seemed she hadn't washed well as soap remnants was still glued to her fingers and hand.  She headed straight for the dinning table. Her thick kinky hair loosely captured in a lopsided bun and beneath her big orange sweat shirt she wore a faded blue shorts. Purple , picking up her work bag caught the sight of the plate on the table.  ''I shou

Shackles binding the feet and not neglecting the scars on the wrist which seemingly fades with time. The mind keeps racing and plotting plans of escape which never really actualizes.  The body isn't left out in it's stagnant state leaving life to glaringly state the obvious which is a viscous circle of vanity.  Are we actually made to survive, to live or just to exist? Who are these children wearing adult bodies? Who are these kids made to stand strong in decisions instead of playing naked on the street.   They are the 90's babies who adulthood has engulfed. We are bathed in responsibilities and forced to grow up in an environment highly unstable.  Clothed in an ensemble that isn't really the reality and forced to walk in the shoes of the ''adored model''. The struggle has become real and survival is an obvious  quest. How does help come to the revered adult who has failed in mind to brace up to challenges? Independence has come up

2017 was quite an epic year! It was what I termed a glorious destination with a rough start.  Quite a number of achievements was made and so many struggles were overcome.  The next big question is....... Are you ready for the next destination? The next destination is 2018 which is about few hours from now.  How ready are you to embark on this journey? I see entering into a new year as embarking on a voyage. You don't necessarily know the very exact destination but you plan for an amazing sail by getting fully prepared for the ''Journey''.  Life itself is a journey, where the end we don't have a vivid idea as to what it holds. The sincere truth being that you can actually get to determine where you get to and this depends on what you carry along with you.    So the question now is, what are you carrying with you? You are in charge of the vehicle and you decide who you let into the car.  I really don't have much to say but I sincerely wo

It's Christmas again and I'm so excited. There isn't any celebration that I love the way I love Christmas.  Waking up early and thinking of how busy the day is going to be, then again I remembered that I have a family to wish a VERY Merry Christmas.  On that Note I wish you all  a wonderful celebration and an amazing time with your loved ones. Don't forget Jesus is the reason for the season. So spread love and be happy.  I love y'll and I want to say A BIG THANK YOU to everyone who has given me a reason to write and I appreciate your comments and contributions.   I am deeply grateful and appreciative of all your contributions to the blog and always making out time to read despite your busy schedules.  I hope we will have a great time here next year. I have so many things planned out for you guys and I'm sure you will love 'em. HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND AN AMAZING NEW YEAR From all of us at KENDER.

Stop thinking and start doing! You only allow fear, doubt and indecision to creep in when you continiously think about what ever you want to embark on. I woke up this morning, and the first question I asked myself was "What's the  next chapter? The question made my eyes flip open and I searched for answers on my vision book. You are about facing the next chapter and you got to be ready, but one thing you have to understand is that nobody is ever fully prepared.  Each step unfolds gradually as you work on your plan. So you have to stop giving it so much thought and start already. The so much thinking, strategising and re-strategising leaves you at one point.....your comfort zone. Ironically you think you have to be fully prepared but no, all you need is an idea and a detailed action plan. Its may not actually go as you planned, but you learn all the way and get better everyday. Dont forget, we become better at  what we do everyday. Choose wisely and become who yo