AFTER LIFE COMPLIMENT * * * *

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Hey Guys!
It's Friday and the week is almost ended and we are moving into a new month (so excited, Xmas is just around the corner. Who is so excited with me?). I wanted to write on one of my many wedding dramas but I guess that story has to wait.
       
I was recently talking to a friend of mine when he passionately mentioned that he didn't believe in "After life compliment". He worried that people wait for odd times to do something nice or even say something nice. At people's funeral, the eulogy would be so passionate and awesome and perhaps they never got the chance to say so many of those beautiful things to the person. Dead people don't hear, instead of waiting for odd times like that, sieze every opportunity to say something sweet to someone.

Generally people feel so good when they are paid a compliment. Even sadists would admit to that. Paying a compliment to a person or showing gratitude is a huge sign of humility and integrity. It takes a loving heart to appreciate a kind gesture and smile in the face of difficulties. It does not matter what we are going through or the many problems on our minds, its always nice to do little good deeds.

One of the main aims of showing gratitude or paying a compliment is to show the person some level of value and self worth and to put a smile on their faces. A smile can heal a broken heart (oh! Yes it can). Consider smiling to a person who just hit rock bottom and patting him/her on the shoulder. You may not necessarily need to say those words 'its well' but the smiles would go a long way to cheer him/her up.

One of my motors in life is "Life is easy" and even though many odds happen to erase that, I still do say it all the time. Just to raise a consciousness that we all should watch each others back and make the world a better place.

* Say 'Thank you' often
* Appreciate a kind gesture no matter how little it is
* Do good deeds when you are in the position to
* Smile to that stranger you never met
* Reach out to someone and help
* Be supportive as much as you can
* Compliment people's efforts, achievements or even their good looks.

Life is too short to with hold a good deed. You may not realize it until you hear a person you were supposed to help the previous day is dead. That's enough life torment. Pay that compliment cause dead people don't hear. Tell them while they are living and put a smile on there faces.

You ain't fully dressed until you wear a smile!

Do have a wonderful weekend friends and Don't forget "After life compliment Worths nothing.
    
                   Keep smiling to the top! ! !

Comments

Softie said…
True talk.... Nice
30 October 2015 at 19:14
spower said…
Where is the " like button " cos I wanna like this
30 October 2015 at 20:46
spower said…
Sofie baby. I recognize you.
30 October 2015 at 20:47
Anonymous said…
Woah, tanks Kender. I have heard of this b4 but ur won makes a special impact. Well done
30 October 2015 at 21:25
Anonymous said…
Nice one kender
31 October 2015 at 13:40
Anonymous said…
So cool. Waiting for the next one
2 November 2015 at 09:48
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